Reflux 101 – When Baby Cries Too Much

March 1, 2011 |  by  |  featured, fussy baby, Medical Wrinkles
Reflux 101 - When Baby Cries Too Much

So your baby cries. What baby doesn’t? What, he spits up a lot too? Welcome to life with babies. Crying and spitup is not a problem. Unless it is.

Happy Spitters

Babies spit up. Some even spit up with such force that it flies across the room. They may spitup so much that it can feel like each feeding is an effort in futility. Big spitters will mark every piece of furniture you own, every carpet, ever piece of clothing with baby vomit. Sometimes they will choke and cough on their own vomit so much that you keep the phone ready with your fingers on 9-1-1. Even the term, spitup, seems too petite and cute for what your baby does. Your baby VOMITS. Often and with great gusto.

Is this OK? Probably.

  • Is your baby gaining weight?
  • Is he happy?

If your baby is reasonably happy and growing at a pace that keeps your pediatrician happy, then regardless of how much the spitup bothers YOU, it’s not a problem. The choking, the projectile vomit, soaking his clothes after every feeding, etc. is not a medical concern. Buy some carpet cleaner. Do lots of laundry. And relax. Your baby is fine.

But how do you know if your baby is happy? Newborn babies cry. A lot.


The average newborn cries for a total of 3 hours throughout the day. Crying and/or fussiness peaks at 6-weeks of age. Typically crying drops to about 1 hour a day by 3 months.

It is almost impossible to really measure how much your newborn baby cries throughout the day. For starters, you’re probably too busy trying to soothe him to really keep track. Secondly, when they do cry it seems like an eternity. Parents are notoriously bad at actually knowing how much their babies cry because 15 minutes can seem like hours.

But lets assume that your baby cries a lot. Maybe more than average. Enough that you’re starting to have concerns that he may have some contributing medical factor like reflux or colic (this post won’t get into colic but it will be covered in the future – use the subscription options on the right if you want to get updates on future postings). Maybe your baby cries a lot and NEVER spits up.

But the bottom line is that you have a really unhappy baby and you’re starting to wonder why he’s so unhappy.

Reflux Defined:

We all have a valve at the top of the stomach that lets food go IN but keeps food from coming back OUT. In most newborns this valve is not fully developed and stomach contents are pushed back up the esophagus and come out of the baby’s mouth. This is called spitup or baby vomit. Over time, this valve matures and the stomach contents stay IN the stomach.

For some babies, having stomach contents pushed up into the esophagus can cause irritation which is just like an adult who suffers from heartburn. So the problem is not the spitup, the problem is discomfort. Most babies will spitup. Only a small number of babies will suffer from reflux related discomfort.

Some babies will have discomfort without visible spitup. These babies are called “silent refluxers.” The stomach acid is being pushed up into their esophagus, causing discomfort, but without enough force to make it all the way up to come out as spitup.

So again, spitup by itself is nothing to worry about.

How Do You Know if Your Baby Has Reflux?

Ultimately this is a determination that you and your pediatrician will need to make together. Unfortunately there aren’t any non-invasive medical tests to make a diagnosis so generally you observe your baby, make an educated guess, and discuss lifestyle & drug treatments with your Dr. If your baby has more than a few symptoms listed below, its time to make an appointment:

  • Cries a LOT (substantially over 3 hours a day)
  • May cry excessively after feedings or while/after spitting up
  • Is irritable/fussy/crying due to PAIN
  • Seems to cry even more when placed on back or in a car seat
  • Has frequent hiccups
  • Coughs often
  • Seems hungry but then refuses breast/bottle after eating very little (but then may want to eat 2 minutes later just to repeat the same process)
  • Has chronic ear infections
  • Sleeps poorly, especially during the day (although it’s not uncommon for refluxing babies to sleep well at night out of sheer exhaustion)
  • Chronic wheezing
  • Arching back after feeding
  • Your parenting instinct tells you your baby’s tummy hurts

Other factors to consider when considering the possibility of infant reflux:

  • Many babies with reflux don’t show any symptoms until they are 3 months old. Presumably this is because it takes time for the stomach acid to result in significant discomfort.
  • Reflux is hereditary. If you, your partner, or immediate family members suffer from heartburn, your baby is at greater risk.
  • Reflux is more common in premature babies.

Reflux can be a frustrating and difficult problem to diagnose. According to Dr. Harvy Karp over 25% of all babies in the US are treated for reflux when less than 2% actually have it.  As a culture we are running to medicate babies who are simply fussy, crying, and spitting up BECAUSE they are babies. You need to listen to your heart. Trust your gut. Talk to your pediatrician. And work with lifestyle remedies (discussed further in a future post). If things don’t improve, it may be time to look into medications or possibly an evaluation with a pediatric GI specialist.

Further reading on Infant Reflux:

Crying Over Spilt Milk – Another highly credible site on reflux, symptoms, treatment, etc. however this one comes out of New Zealand. Use the menu on the left for helpful information on symptoms, diagnosis, and treatment. Some of the vernacular is going to be unusual to Americans (“happy chucker” = baby who spits up a lot but doesn’t seem uncomfortable).

Infant Reflux Disease – Good site with general reflux information and a parent forum. Parent forums can be really helpful resources if you can put in the time to wade through them. Especially if you are looking for lifestyle management solutions for reflux (read: non-medical solutions to keep your unhappy spitter happy).

Reflux Rebels – A good source of information and a good parent forum. I particularly like this article on common infant reflux myths.

Infant Reflux – Another good forum (although most of the site content outside of the forum is out of date or contains broken links).

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17 Comments


  1. Pretty good article. My husband and I both have acid reflux and our two older children were on medication for it as babies. I’m pretty sure baby #3 (now 6 weeks) may need it too.

    Child #1 projectile vomited over 3 times a day. She went through 5 outfits a day most of the time. She also chocked constantly, even turning blue once, and she needed baby heimlich. Very scary. She was pretty happy though. She only cried when it hurt, not for long periods. But she still needed medication because of the choking. She had an upper GI to diagnose it and she refluxed on camera. Many times we had to pull the car over and rush to get her out of her carseat and do back blows.

    Child #2 wasn’t quite as bad but was more cranky. She still needed medications. Had same test (Upper GI). I don’t remember as much about her symptoms.

    You are right about it peaking at 3 months. That’s when both children had their test.

  2. Wow.
    It must have been impossible to get out of the house if every car trip was a potential medical catastrophe. Yike!

    Just curious – what medication helped with the choking? I’m most familiar with Zantac and Prevacid which reduce acidity but not volume (so the choking would continue albeit less painfully).

  3. Very helpful article!

    Just wanted to add that many times doctors diagnose reflux while its food allergies.

    I know of many cases, myself included, where the doctor’s diagnosis was reflux, but the lactation consultant’s advice to eliminate cow protein from the moms diet (milk, cheese, butter etc) worked like a charm… making the “reflux” disappear.

  4. We found out our 6 month old son had “silent reflux” when we kept taking him to the doctor because he sounded super congested and it just wasn’t getting better. The doctor checked his lungs each time and they were clear, but he still sounded horrible–not just coughing, but his breathing sounded horrible too. Finally they suggested it might be silent reflux and gave us zantac. It’s seemed to help, but he still sounds super congested. The doctor doesn’t seem worried, but his breathing just sounds so bad, like he’s been smoking for decades…could it be something else?

    • Hey Emmi,
      Zantac won’t keep his food from coming up into this throat. And THAT is why he sounds congested – the food coming up. Nothing will stop this from happening. Well TIME will but you can’t force it.

      Zantac will reduce the acidity of his stomach contents so if your baby is unhappy, this should help alleviate what is effectively baby heart burn. But if your baby is NOT unhappy, seems perfectly content, but is really congested or what not, Zantac won’t fix that.

      Sorry :(
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      • Thanks Alexis!
        He doesn’t seem unhappy anymore (he was super fussy before the zantac and when we stopped it for a bit), it just worries me to hear him sound like that because it sounds so icky. Thank you for letting me know it’s normal!

    • Emmi I can totally sympathize. Have you tried putting your baby to sleep in his side? It made such a difference with our daughter. If we put her on her back she would arch her back, gasping for air, and I know she wasn’t getting any sleep. Putting her on her side was actually something our Ped suggested. For the first three months we had her swaddled, on her side, with rolled up blankets to keep her supported. I would definitely ask your Ped if that is something you can do, just to give you a peace of mind when putting him to sleep.
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  5. My 2 month old son has reflux. Our naturopath and pediatrician recommended a dairy and gluten free diet. My question is, how come this food “allergy” didn’t begin or bother my baby until he is two months old? Help!

    • There is a huge connection between reflux and milk issues. Chances are it’s bothered him all along HOWEVER it takes time for the irritation in the esophagus to build up to the point that you can see the effects (in terms of behavior, sleep, etc.).

      Studies show that 50% of kids with reflux will see symptoms abate if Mom goes off dairy, so I highly recommend you try. Gluten is a whole different issue but there is no harm in giving it a try.

      Note: I’ve got a HUGE and AMAZING post on food allergies and babies coming out next week. A reader put it together and it’s frankly, a fantastic resource. So you should come back and check it out next week :)
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      • Thank you so much for your reply! I stopped eating both dairy and gluten 5 days ago. I may have noticed a slight improvement but he is definitely still spitting up and he cries from 30 minutes to an hour almost every night.
        How long does it take for the muscle to rebuild and for the reflux to go away?
        Our naturopath recommended probiotics so I am giving that to him as well.
        This is a great forum, I will definitely read your next article and everything else you publish.
        Thank you again, much appreciated.

  6. Hi
    I read so many articles about silent reflux and I am really confused!
    I would really appreciate it if you could let me know what you think.
    My baby had reflux which started when she was 1 month old – she vomited almost after every feeding. I must note that baby did not cry a lot, she slept well and was I would say a happy baby BUT she vomited. First question: why reflux started when she was 1 month old and not earlier? She never vomited in the first 4 weeks.
    Since then we tried 5 different formulas (AR formulas, thickened to keep milk in the stomach). Some of them caused diarrhea, other pain and colics and others just did not help. They all made her miserable and crying all the time. Until we tried the 5th formula. Suddenly NO VOMITING. Also NO COLICS.
    But we suddenly started noticing some symptoms of silent reflux. Second question: Can an AR formula turn reflux into silent reflux?? I.e. No visible vomiting but baby still has reflux? Please let me know what you think.
    The signs we noticed is:
    1. Crying after feeding (for around 30 minutes until she finally sleeps in our arms)
    2. Fussy when sleeping and sometimes crying (but I read this could be normal for babies)
    3. Increased saliva (but I read this could be normal now that she is 2 months old)
    4. Hiccups (once a day is frequent?)
    5. Sometimes she swallows hours after eating (maybe she just swallows her saliva?)

    THANK YOU VERY MUCH IN ADVANCE
    Anna

  7. Apologies, I forgot one last question.
    Third question: is silent reflux without much crying possible? baby cries only after feeding and of course when hungry before feeding. Or babies with silent reflux always cry a lot?
    Thanks again
    Anna

  8. Thanks for all of your information.

    My daughter is 13 months old and has CMPI (on neocate) and silent reflux for which she takes Prevacid. We are currently trying to strike a good balance between a dosage that controls her reflux but dosen’t cause excessive wind (which almost causes her as much grief). Have you heard of this before? For now, my GI thinks changing PPI’s wouldn’t make a difference??

    Secondly, she sleeps in a stationary pram / swing and still has significant cough/ splutter episodes. In good patches she can self settle after these. They are are worse during colds, teeth and when she has more wind. I thought this might have improved by now and we could get her into a cot. Would your educated guess be that this is likely to happen anytime soon?? Now that we have passed the “12 month milestone” is there another time frame to look towards or is this a sign that we still have a long road to travel??

    Thanks for your thoughts.

    P.S I’m writing this in the middle of the night so apologies if it doesn’t make sense.

  9. Thank you so much. My granddaughter appears to be a silent refluxer. She is miserable on her back and fusses like she is in apparent pain when laid back…can’t get her to sleep past an hour at a time unless she is on her stomach. I have been so consumed with keeping her on her back and didn’t think on side was still an option today…this will likely get us some relief until we can get her doctor to confirm the reflux. Thank you so much.

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